Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Calling Names

Isnt it a bit childish to call people names despite their physical appearance? I mean i get it if you still budak sekolah sbb i pun pernah. Tipulah kalo tak pernah kan? Baik mcm mne pun kau, kau mesti pernah bagi orng nama ikut kesesuaian dia lah. But i think tak pernah i bagi nama gemuk  kt seserong sbb dia gemuk or kurus mcm lidi sbb dia kurus kering. I mean it so obvious that it is common and its boring. Giving name should be fun and creative. Cewah. Aku mcm menggalakkan pulak. But i do have a point at the end okay. So just hear me out. 

I ingt lagi i pernah bagi nama 'hairdryer rosak' sbb well rambut dia mmg tak kene gaya langsung. And then 'radio rosak' sbb suara dia sumbang still ada hati/confident tok nyanyi kt public. Pastu ada lagi satu 'curve' sbb dia bajet ada buntut mantap gitu. Lgi satu 'the unincredible hulk (TUH) sbb dia takdelah strong sgt tpi bajet kuat gitu. Tak, i tak bape ingt sgt actually. Yg i tau dia ada crush kt i and we talked sbb i tak ingt sape yg memandai bagi number i kt dia, maybe one of my girls? And since dia tau rumah i, dia tunggu i kt lorng konon nk gi sklh sama2 ngan i lah. But i think conversation kteorng mlm tu kinda bwat i tak nak jumpa dia. Tu jelah sketsa pendek yg i ingt. 

See, creative tak? Haha.. Every name ada story yg orng tak sangka or tak tau. Ahh..the perks of it. Bukannya pointing out the obvious. Like kau panggil someone tu gemuk which dia mmg gemuk. You dont need to remind he/she that dia gemuk. Dia taulah dia mcm mana and dia happy je. Tpi bila kau pnggil dia mcm tu, self confidence dia turun sket and it could lead to depression. It could. Or kau panggil seseorng tu lidi sbb dia kurus kering. Trust me the thin people also ada anxiety dia tersendiri. Mesti uolls ingt, yelah dh kurus, dh perfect dh, ley pakai baju apa je. But they have lack of their own confidence. You see, kurus means that sometime or most of the time dorng takde certain baggage. Sbb tulah ada yg nk buat implant tits or ass. And jangan disangka yg orng lawa tu pun perfect sgt. They had their own body issue they battle off yang kita tak tau. Maybe dia cantik tpi dia tak suke kaki dia yg besar ke. Who knows. 
 

But over all, calling people names are so rude and mean. It should stop or you should just keep it to yourself. Tak perlu kot nk shout and saying those name out loud. Dont be an asshole or a douche bag. You aint perfect either. In fact no ones is perfect. But we just learn to love ourselves and make ourselves happy and improve ourselves to be better. All this giving name is such a waste of time. Maybe bagi kau it just a joke and all. But its not. Cuba kalo orang bagi kau nama lak. How would you feel? Jangan bohong lak kata kau okay je. Okay kt mulut, kt hati sape tau? 

So, embrace the beauty that god give us all. And no matter what people say or whatever you think of yourself, remember, you are beautiful in so many ways. Tak perlu nk masuk dewi remaja ke beauty pageant ke apa ke. Just be yourself and be happy. Always. :)


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