A friend ask me "is it normal to lose interest in guys and its not like im a lesbian or something."
When you had a significance other whom you love very much, mestilah u stick with them. The feeling will fix on them wlaupun kdg2 perangai dia mintak kaki. You stood by them no matter what. You choose him/her instead of others. So it is normal if you lose interest on other people bcoz your heart or feeling was fix on him/her, your significance other.
Like my friend who perfectly in love with her bf. So it was normal. Who knows maybe this time around she want to get serious with this guy. No more play around. And wlaupun i xdelah kenal laki tu sgt and xrapat sgt. But i know he is a good guy and im sure he can take care my best friend. Just like me, who had a feeling fix only for joe. How many times i try to walk away, move on, starting fresh/anew, forget all about joe, i end up running back and crawling back towards joe. Tah pape je. But it was true. I mean kalo x, npe it didnt work out between me and abg saga, Happy and Ijat. I mmg xde feeling lngsung kt dorng. I try tpi mmg xley bwat apa. Sbb then i try to compare them and joe and i pick joe of course. Tpi kalo tetbe dia jumpa someone, i akan undur diri. Apa2 pun, ada jodoh ada. Xde, we remains friend kan?
Like my friend who perfectly in love with her bf. So it was normal. Who knows maybe this time around she want to get serious with this guy. No more play around. And wlaupun i xdelah kenal laki tu sgt and xrapat sgt. But i know he is a good guy and im sure he can take care my best friend. Just like me, who had a feeling fix only for joe. How many times i try to walk away, move on, starting fresh/anew, forget all about joe, i end up running back and crawling back towards joe. Tah pape je. But it was true. I mean kalo x, npe it didnt work out between me and abg saga, Happy and Ijat. I mmg xde feeling lngsung kt dorng. I try tpi mmg xley bwat apa. Sbb then i try to compare them and joe and i pick joe of course. Tpi kalo tetbe dia jumpa someone, i akan undur diri. Apa2 pun, ada jodoh ada. Xde, we remains friend kan?
But then my friend ckp yg dia sendiri xsure dia ada feeling kt bf dia or x. And its worried me. So my theory is that maybe she and this guy get together terlalu cepat. I ingt lagi masa tu dia baru break ngan ex dia. She had a very very bad break up. And lgi teruk ble she need us, we couldnt be there sbb masing2 jauh n busy. Dapat moral support dri jauh je. And she was lost. Fast forward.Tak lama pastu we found out she was with this new/recent bf. Cepat kn? I rasa somehow she not ready and she just looking for a rebound relationship je. Knowing her, she just cant be alone. She needed some guy to be by her side. She just need some space actually. To pick up the pieces. To figure out. And just to know herself.
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